Add the cut okra to the egg mixture, coating the pods well; let sit for 10 minutes, gently stirring occasionally
In a large Ziplock bag, add cornmeal, flour, salt, pepper and cayenne pepper; shake it up to mix it together
1¼ cups yellow cornmeal, ¼ cup all purpose flour, 2 teaspoons kosher salt, divided, ½ teaspoon ground black pepper, ¼ teaspoon ground cayenne pepper (optional)
Use a slotted spoon and remove the egg coated okra from the bowl and put it into the cornmeal mixture; shake it up real good until all the okra is coated thoroughly
Pour the cornmeal coated okra into a colander and give it a light shake
Get a large, heavy-bottom skillet and add ¾"inch of oil on medium-high heat; use a thermometer to test the heat of the oil. You want it to be around 375°F; see recipe notes if you don't have a thermometer
Vegetable oil
Add the okra to the hot oil in a single layer; cook 3-4 minutes until the okra begins to turn golden brown; you may have to gently turn some of the okra with a spoon to ensure it's cooked all the way around; use a slotted spoon or spider to remove the golden brown okra; transfer to a paper towel lined plate; repeat process until all the okra is fried
If you want, lightly sprinkle the remaining salt over the warm okra and serve immediately with or without a dipping sauce
Notes
Frozen okraIf you're using frozen okra, let it thaw first, then pat it dry and resume recipeFrying oilUse vegetable or canola oil (not olive oil). The amount of oil you'll need will depend upon the size of skillet you use. You want about 3/4" inch of oil in the skillet.If you're making several batches of fried okra, each batch will be browner than the one before due to you're reusing the oil. If this bothers you, toss out the oil between batches and reheat fresh oil.If you don't have a thermometerHeat the oil in the skillet until it begins to shimmer; drop a piece of breaded okra in the hot oil; if it sizzles, the oil is hot enough; if it doesn't sizzle, wait a minute and try another piece or turn the stove heat up a little.